One thing often overlooked during the design phase of a home for the 55-plus buyer is giving couples their space. After years of having work break up the day, the sudden togetherness can be a shock. And since this is an experienced buyer, they may already be acutely aware of this.
The first place for “separation” is in the master bath. Vanities need separation, and I like them on opposite sides of the room if possible. For vanities that are in a line, ensure there is adequate space for each.
The next place for separate zones: the walk-in closets. Ideally, each person would each have their own closet, but this isn’t always possible when downsizing. If there’s room for only one closet, creating defined zones within one large closet will relieve future stress for the couple.
Now, let’s talk about the study or home office. Whether they are working or retired, both need their own computer or laptop, although they can share the same room. One solution is to provide a partner desk where they face each other, but I am not a fan, personally. I prefer my own corner where I can focus and not be distracted by my partner.
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A bonus room offers novelty for both.
Even after following these separation techniques, there are other ways to give homeowners their space. I love the idea of a second-floor bonus room where couples can escape. Maybe it’s a sports bar, or perhaps the home includes two media spaces where each can watch their favorite show without conflict.
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The murphy bed in the flex space offers a place for good rest.
In a previous blog, I mentioned the importance of couples needing their sleep. And since the tendency to snore increases with age, many 55-plus couples need an alternate place to sleep. This can be a touchy subject so you might want to consider discrete ways to include two separate sleeping areas. The fear for some is that two separate sleeping areas may suggest the couple isn’t intimate, which is not something most couples want discussed among their friends or family.
Living out one’s retirement years doesn’t mean the couple has to be joined at the hip. Time together should be cherished, but separate activities, interests, and spaces are healthy.
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